
Cookshrink is a weekly column that looks at the psychological aspects of how and what we cook.
Last week’s column about cooking for an audience led to some discussion about the importance of preparation as as tool to keep your wits about you when cooking for others. It made me start thinking about the issue of timing when cooking for guests.
I am both wildly impatient and have a nearly pathological fear of keeping people waiting, which means that even when I plan to finish up cooking once the guests arrive, my nerves dictate that I have finished all my prep work down to the last detail before they get there. I wasn’t always like this, but seemed to become more emphatic about being prepared after one too many evenings of being served dinner at midnight, me and my fellow guests long drunk on empty stomachs while waiting for the designated cook to get his or her act together.
We all run into small delays and have accidents that set us back in the kitchen, but there’s a type of person who invites you for dinner at 8pm and then, when you arrive on time, seems surprised to see you, brushing his or her still-wet hair and scrambling to find the wine glasses and put some olives out, mumbling something after a half hour about how he or she needs to get dinner started.
This kind of cook is not necessarily inexperienced, just disorganized, his or her time management issues manifesting themselves in the kitchen. The kind of cook who tends to get caught up in the moment, to take on too many tasks at once, to lose track of the big picture while mired in the details. Generally overambitious, this kind of person plans elaborate meals that fall apart once the realities of making them set in.
Am I describing you or someone you know? If not, what are your secrets for getting dinner on the table?